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Where did it come from?

22 Oct

I certainly don’t want to offend anyone, so please keep in mind that I speak with the best of intentions. When I saw the below videos, I couldn’t help but speak out.

*Warning* – Most of this video is very hard to watch. But keep in mind, it has a VERY good message.

I know it’s easier to turn away right away – because this might come across to you as ‘just another upset peta protest’ blah blah blah. But consider the message in the video, the next time you purchase wool to wear or lamb to eat. Where does it come from, how were the animals treated? It’s very pretty wool at the store – no doubt. But where did it come from, did the farmer raise the lamb who wore the wool – with love, or mutilate it so you could buy the wool cheap? Or buy the lamb meat cheap? Because it was faster. Because it was more convenient.

 

Then take into consideration the other friendly animals who give up their lives to make ours a little easier. Take in to consideration – how were they treated? The more you buy without thought – the more money in the pockets of the cruel farmers.

It’s not BAD to eat meat or wear clothes made from animal products. What is BAD is those cruel cruel farmers.

Isn’t it worth the time to give thanks to the animals – by supporting the farmers who do make their life – a good life?

 

Stepping on my soap box a little higher…

Before Clark and I were married, we both respected animals. I have always been “over sensitive” about how animals are treated. Some things that others would find amusing where an animal was humiliated or mocked in videos or pictures – I would just cry at the drop of a hat. I’ve been this TinyHero1way my whole life. I HATE the common phrase “there’s more than 1 way to skin a cat” – it makes my skin crawl, what a sick way of expressing yourself!

It wasn’t until Clark and I adopted both Hero & Tiny that our hearts changed. Never would we have thought that we could love an animal SO much. It makes watching videos like the above – that much harder to take in, because we know what it’s like to REALLY love an animal. Hero and Tiny aren’t just ‘a Cat.’ or ‘a Pet.’. They are like … a member of our family. We are SO sad when they are sad, we are SO aware of their feelings.

So to see a human being, so carelessly throw an animal aside, not even taking into consideration that they are IN PAIN, makes my heart ache so deeply. It’s one thing to be naive/ignorant about it all – that’s forgiveable… but when there is blood on your hands… COME ON!

I’m vegetarian for medical reasons, but stuff like this makes me feel a whole lot better that I have to not eat meat. At least there is that much less money in those heartless pockets.

 

… Watch this video to learn where the source of your eggs from the Grocery store come from. This is why I feel the Organic Brand of eggs is worth the extra $1 . ‘Cage Free’ eggs, HAPPIER eggs :D

Ok. I’m done. :)

To make a difference: Start being aware. Do your best to find out where the meat or animal products come from. Organic brands are friendly brands so you can feel safe choosing those. Just trying your best makes a BIG difference. :)

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Dear China – I don’t have it anymore!

7 Oct

Dear China,

I see you knocking at my door, but I don’t have what you want.

Months ago I added FlightlessBird.mp3 as a song to play on my blog. Didn’t think that one day you’d send THOUSANDS of angry – raging Twilight fans to come knocking HUNDREDS of times at my server door upset that I deleted the file that you wrongly linked to my site! Go buy it on Amazon, and upload it to your OWN SITE!

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Give up the fight, there’s nothing to win!

BTW – I have the ability to see your IP, and I have a ban tool in my website that blocks you (in case you hadn’t noticed). So, FYI for all of you who are wondering why you can’t free-load off my bandwidth anymore, playing your favorite Twilight Song OVER & OVER again… IT’S GONE! Go away! Unless you want to READ my blog, please LEAVE my blog ALONE!

Thanks China, I do love you – but not when you slow down my site.


*kisses*


–Rebecca


p.s That 1,185 is 1,185 and counting. 1,185 in less than 24 hrs. Oh… my… gosh… are we this obsessed over 1 Twilight Song?


UPDATE: as of today 10/08/09, 11am PST there have been 4,118 attempts!!!!  How can I charge for these hits? ;-)

UPDATE: as of today 10/10/09, 11:40am  PST there have been 7, 283 attempts!!!! Seriously, if I charged .50cents per attempt! ….

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Obama Likes to Party – Forget the Politics!

29 Sep

Ok, so maybe I am being a bit dramatic here. Who doesn’t like to make everyday a celebration – right? Well… I just wanted to point out 2 things that have happened within the last month – during stressful controversial times for Pres. Obama. In two recent speeches, one being yesterday:

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NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the
United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in
me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do
hereby proclaim September 28, 2009, as Family Day. I call upon
the people of the United States to join together in observing
this day with appropriate ceremonies and activities to honor and
strengthen our Nation’s families.

and back in the end of August:

NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim August 30 through September 5, 2009, as National Historically Black Colleges and Universities Week.

Honestly… is it just me who’s seeing something ODD about all this “I therefore proclaim _________ to be ___________day.” Now, let’s CELEBRATE!

Some liberals would say, “Well, it’s hard times. It’s good that he’s creating so many reasons to celebrate”. Sure sure… but I say, let’s get back to Politics here and FOCUS! And while you’re at it… could you go back and edit the Aug. 30 to Sept. 5th to be National Historical American Colleges and Universities Week so we ALLLLLLLL Black, Latino, Asian, Indian, Caucasian, Islander, Philippino,  Samoan, Tongan People can celebrate. We’re kind of feeling left out. Correct me if I’m wrong, but you promised to UNITE us?

Thank you,

Rebecca

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I’m Shy

26 Sep

I talk big sometimes… I have confidence in most things… but I’m easily intimated I have found.

ShyVENTING: Oh… There have been few ‘best’ – girl friends that I’ve made in my life. Solid friends that I am SO SO grateful for. Also, I’ve made several friends that are girls (such as most of you who read my blog).  But… I’m not quite sure why I feel more comfortable around males vs. women. I just don’t know what to say most of the time. I have no kids, so that cuts out A LOT of topics in a mass of collected women who get together around here… I feel so nerdy I am fearful of bringing up TV shows and computer related things when the rest of them are talking about what food they feed their kids and why. I’ve thought of jumping in and talking about what I feed “my babies(cats)… but that would be weird… Clark told me I should mention my nieces and nephews in conversations where women are all talking about their kids a whole bunch. I’ve done that a few times and they all stop and stare at me … silence creeps me out! Are they expecting me to say more? I thought for a split second I was cool – but then I started rethinking things…

I could talk about blogging, but I’m all about WordPress and most everyone else has blogger… *sigh*… I just clam up and I don’t know what to say! I spend my whole day working on technical programming /design stuff! What do I do? Am I over-complicating this situation? I want to be friends with women (I know I need to! My toenails haven’t been painted in over 3 years!)- but… I think I’ve surrounded myself unintentionally with mostly men in my life as friends – I am so foreign to the having a lot of girls as close friends – except for the rare occasion. Even those friends have men as mostly friends, that’s probably why we get along so great. I get nervous and scared off and just let my guard down more around the guys because it’s easier! I always worry about what women think when I do get shy and hide away for awhile… will they think I hate them or don’t like them? Ugh… again, this is where guys are much easier – because I feel they don’t care nearly as much as women – who over-think… HELLO! Like what I’m doing right now! What do you suggest I do?

When in a situation of speaking to women who could potentially be a close friend, and you don't know what to say:

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Clark is my best-friend. He’s been one of the few who I feel gets me 110%. The good, the bad – he accepts ALL of me! No matter what! He may not understand some things at first, but his deep love I know & feel he has for me helps quicken the process of understanding – or at least finding a way to relate… like for instance, my quirky thing about when I get nervous – I go to the bathroom multiple times (for physical reasons too, but more often when I’m nervous)… weird right?! Well, from my LIFE experience – guys don’t care as much, but girls  I feel go on a rapid speed of thought of wondering why. I’m probably completely wrong here – but that’s how I feel. Where did I ever get this idea that girls judge and guys don’t care as much – or at least for that long? It’s cliche for a lot of things – but it’s a belief in my mind… and I get shy, I get nervous – I don’t know what to say – so I stay quiet and hide in the shadows and just watch. If there was a room full of a group of guys there and girls over there, I’d go and chat with the guys (with Clark of course) and feel more comfortable. It’s not that I don’t enjoy going out for girls night or hanging with the girls… I just feel … different. Where did this all start from? Hmmm… another challenge for me to resolve :D

Speaking of which!!!! GUESS WHAT?

My period this last month was RIGHT ON day 28, and was FIVE DAYS LONG!!!! Record breaking for the past 3 years! UNBELIEVABLE! Guess what day I started?… THE DAY I GOT MY JOB! And [also] GUESS WHAT?! It didn’t hurt like labor pains – all it was – was really uncomfortable, but bearable enough to where I could still function!!!! That is GOOD NEWS! Is it a coincidence or WHAT!? The hope and dream of having a baby is more real, and my stress level… I tell you what, after the reality of me having a job and stable income coming into our home – I felt my whole body deflate (literally) of pent up anxiety, stress, probably every illness I have ever thought I’ve had over the past 2 years has probably all been heavily influenced by STRESS! WOW, I never knew that stress could literally be … so… so… incognito? Sneaky way of slowly breaking your body down until you go literally insane?! … Lethal? All I know is that I feel it slipping out of my body. Literally, each day that I feel more and more SAFE in regards to being able to buy groceries, that we will be able to pay bills, that we will be able to LIVE… awwwww… we’re safe. We’re OK. Things will be alright. :) My body is starting to believe that and it’s settling down and I feel like my ‘ol self again! :D

Such is my job. I LOVE it! My boss is SO nice, the whole situation of the job itself is honestly, a DREAM JOB! I have no complaints – at all! I hope and PRAY PRAY PRAY that this is a long-term job. I hope with all my heart that it’ll last forever! Or – until we have kids . I want to be a full-time Mommy. Whenever that happens, but I’m not worried about that right now. Fully focusing on my job, getting our debt paid off and building a SAFE foundation for our kids to enter into – that is Clark’s and my game plan.

Speaking of Clark, his many many businesses (as his family and friends well know, lol) are doing pretty darn good! He’s had a lot of camera jobs this week, today he went out on a shoot at a recording studio. His web jobs are also doing pretty good. Things have been really taking off for us! But we’re not forgetting to stop everyday and really count our many blessings and thanking the Lord every morning and every night!

I’ve been so busy, which is why I haven’t blogged as regularly. I’m getting into the swing of things. Hopefully I”ll be able to slowly bring in everything I’d like to continue doing like I used to (dishes, laundry, reading books, blogging, etc ;) ) . We’ll see, one step at a time!

Everything is going VERY well!

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