Can Fairy tales come true? I don’t know, but it sure feels like it!
Clark and I have been having a lot of fun lately. Having fun being spontaneous at a moments notice and taking random drives to random places and eating some pretty good food here and there. I think what makes the biggest difference to the romantic-like essence of the day is how you perceive it to affect you. Clark and I like to proclaim acts of spontaneity in the name of ‘romantic’. Like a drive to a distant city to go shopping, or a trip to the beach, or to our favorite park. It makes it more special, even if its something we just did the other day or this is the 30th time we’ve done this. 
All these fun exciting things have really strengthened our love for one another. It helps remind us how important it is to look to the others needs and naturally you’ll receive whatever you need in return. Focusing on ‘whats in it for them‘ instead of ‘what’s in it for me’ is a key to happiness in any relationship I feel.
Sometimes Clark wants to go somewhere, but I’m right in the middle of something, or I’m really not feeling up to it. But I look into his eyes and see that he really needs to get out and I just bite the bullet and go. I almost always end up having just as much fun as he does! Having made the sacrifice, the romance just blossoms in front of our eyes, because he in turn meets my needs either that same day or later in the week because he was nourished by me fulfilling his needs and he naturally wants to do the same for me because the attraction of love is alive and active.
A few fun and romantic things we’ve done this week include:
- Walks around our favorite park with a lake
- A trip to Burbank Mall to purchase some cute clothes
- Eating out at some restaurants we’ve never been to and discovered them as our new favorites! One is ‘Bill’s Hamburgers’, cute little hole in the wall, size of a snow-cone shack, has THE BEST hamburgers in LA! SOOOooooo good!
- Spontaneous trip to the beach yesterday, SO fun! We played in the waves, sat and had lunch on the beach and watched the people. Extremely fun day!
- Staying in after shopping for some healthy snacks at Whole Foods or Trader Joe’s, curled up in a comfy blanket together and watching a chick flick is another favorite thing to do for us. This week we watched Dear John. We LOVED it!
- Clark serenaded me with the guitar the other night. Oh, swoooon ♥♥♥♥
I really love this guy. I’m one lucky woman. ♥
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The thought of this makes me giggle…. how many times do you hear of a couple going out to dinner with their Apartment Landlord and his wife? Certainly I would have never thought that we would. But I must tell you, it was quite fun!!!
